Monday, March 23, 2009

My feeling were hurt

I'm trying really hard not to upset or angry or bitter. I invited most of my co-workers to the wedding, some because I felt obligated to, even though I didn't want to and others that I really wanted to share the day with me. So I got my first hint of something going on when one of my co-workers told me that she was coming to the wedding but not to the reception because she was going to a concert. Keep in mind, my invitation were out way before the concert tickets went on sale. Then about two days ago, another co-worked same story. And today, a third co-worker said and I quote "I have a problem. I really, really want to go to your reception, but" and I finished by saying "You have concert" tickets. Yep. I lost it and said " That pisses me off." and I walked out.

These are not the co-workers that I didn't want to come. These are ones that I really wanted to share the day with and apparently a concert is more important. Rude. Inconsiderate. Selfish. All kinds of thought run through my head. I had a hard time putting this in a good prespective. I just need to keep in mind the people that will be important to me 10 years from now will be there. My co-workers- well, I'll dream up some form of torture for them.


Anonymous said...

I am so sorry that your feelings are hurt. It makes me sad that they did this to you. Do you want me to come beat them up?

You are right, the people that are most important to you and that you are important to will be there.
It's hard but do NOT let them get to you. YOUR day will be great.


Monogram Queen said...

I like that you stated you were pissed off. That's good. Get it out.
It still sort of (okay it DOES) bugs me who did not come to MY wedding but I figure...their loss and the ones who did - I know they really love me.
To be fair, mine did involve travel of over 100 miles also.
I'm so sorry you are feeling bad right before your big day!